Neurobiology of hope

 

1) I AM NOT A READER

When you say you're "not a reader," it might come across as if you're not curious or eager to learn,

which can make you seem less intelligent. People often think that if you're not reading, you're not 

learning or developing. Reading can mean different or developing. Reading can mean different

things, like articles, research papers, or non-fiction books on topics you enjoy.

2) I DON'T NEED TO WRITE IT DOWN

Psychology shows that writing things down doesn't mean you have a bad memory or less smart.

Instead, it shows that you're organized, pay attention to details, and respect to work you're doing

qualities that smart people have. Don't hesitate to take notes. It shows you're serious about what

you do and care more about accuracy than false pride.

3) IT'S NOT MY FAULT

Overusing this phrase can make you come across as less intelligent. Blaming others for your 

mistake or failures not only looks bad but also shows a lack of self-awareness and responsibility 

two qualities often linked to intelligence. Accepting our faults shows maturity and a deep 

understanding of our actions and their impact.

4) THAT'S IMPOSSIBLE

Smart people usually approach challenges with a "let's figure out" mindset instead of dismissing

them as impossible. They see challenges as chances to learn and grow, not as unbeatable barriers.

Next time you face a tough task, instead of saying " This's impossible" try saying, "This is challenging

but let's see how can we handle it." This change is words can help shift your mindset and how others

see your intelligence.

5) I HATE THIS

Expressing strong dislike or hatred can sometimes make you seem less intelligent. It's not about

hiding your feelings but rather how you choose to share them. Saying you "hate" something can

sound too emotional and show a lack of deeper understanding. It implies a black-and-white view

instead of recognizing the complexities of situations or people. Instead of saying " I hate this" try 

explaining what you don't like or don't understand. This shows you're open to discussion,

understanding, and effective communication.